There are two different types of people in life, and most of you can relate to both and their impact in your life.
We are blessed to have so many “encouragers” at our gym.
I really believe if you push people positively to do a little bit better, over time the change can be stratospheric and we are very lucky to have so many great people who support us in this vision.
When a member is struggling or feeling down, they need positivity, empathy and encouragement and can often make all the difference to make them show up and try harder consistently, which over time is life-changing.
Then in life you will have some people who will be keen to try and “blow out your candle” and delight in it initially. Little do they know that their very own candle and brightness will not shine brighter because of it.
If you give out “gifts” of negativity, jealousy and.bitterness, then those “gifts” only belong to you, if the people you aim to give them to do not accept them, the person giving out negativity actually owns them and are stuck with them and it will lead to a miserable life.
We passed another milestone this week since lockdown of having done 504 classes since lockdown. When we first started back, many said they wouldn’t last, that many classes a day wasn’t possible, or that it would be too wet, too cold, too hot, too hard, or too “anything” not to work.
We looked for reasons why it COULD work, and are always looking to find solutions instead of problems. Life always works better when you live with hope, possibility and opportunity every day.
Both types of people mentioned can absolutely use as rocket fuel for our progress, motivation and determination. Its always vital to have people in your corner who you can prove RIGHT for their belief in you, but it’s always good to have people you can prove wrong too, sometimes we can work even harder when someone doubts we can do great things and scale the heights in life.
Being in business, every day is a winding road and you get to see the big picture on what works and what doesn’t.
You see who is benefiting your business by just being there every day and lifting everyone up through their positivity, those types you need to keep inviting in.
Then you have those who are energy vampires, those who are intent on sucking the life out of everyone, who need to go and find their own kind somewhere else, if they don’t want to change and hop on your bus.
The trick is to embrace and love those who add positivity, who give everything to being better and do everything you can for them, and pick up all of those who are struggling with doubt, self-esteem, self-confidence and build them up so they can indeed do incredible things too, everyone has incredible talent within, I see our job in life as bringing that magic out and seeing them flourish, NOTHING makes me happier than that.
If do your best for everyone all of the time, you serve them really well and deeply care how well they come on, then real life transformations can occur regularly, and going into your gym or business becomes a truly magical experience each and every day.
