So how’s your resolutions going you made on new year’s eve? Are they going well or have they even got going yet? Is it turning into yet another disappointment already or do things seem really “different” this year?!!
There’s heck a lot of difference between making a resolutions like everyone makes at the end of the year, and A DECISION and COMMITMENT. Resolutions to me are like a shot in the dark, a hope that somehow something may come off, or even like a lottery chance that something good will happen in your life this year, somehow it will happen even without any recognised plan, “somehow” or “someday” often leads to a town called “nowhere” as the old saying goes.
If you regard final decisions and big commitment as always being acted upon, and resolutions as fairy tales, you won’t go too far wrong!!!
How about those long term goals that are never reached? The answer is to focus on the short term instead and look to implement meaningful actions that are likely to bring results and quickly. Instead of saying you want to lose 2-3 stones and getting obsessed with the scales, lets focus on the stuff thats going to get you there and give you long lasting results.
For example, if lunch is a disaster zone for you right now, then its an obvious area you can change RIGHT NOW. Instead of something fried for lunch in a cafe, ask them to grill something healthier or you, most cafe’s want the extra business these days and will satisy your request, especially if you’re a regular, good businesses always look after good customers in my book.
If you are in a bakery, its doesnt have to be tuna white rolls with lots of mayo or chicken with mayo with butter and margarine, ask them for a wholemeal roll with no butter or margarine and no mayo in the tuna if possible, if you ask nicely they will do it and the same with the chicken with no mayo, health and good health at that has never been more fashionable and tell yourself you’re working hard on your exercise and you don’t want to blow all of that hard work on needless calories at lunch time!!!
To make sure you keep these habits up, write down for 7 days what you usually eat, and from that you can easily see where you’re going right and where you’re obviously going wrong. Goals and actions have been proven to be successul when you write things down, it sort of makes you far more accountable than you normally would be so give it a go!!!
