It’s a fact of life, that the higher you climb, the better you feel, especially when your health is concerned. Your family and those will be thrilled as you seem to be much better to be around now……but not “everyone” will be happy.
A familiar pattern plays out almost every time. You start showing up to the gym, you get fitter, stronger, and are able to do things you barely thought possible. You are full of pride, the right people will give you applause and encourage you to do even better.
Whilst your cause is very rewarding and noble and I deeply admire you for doing so well and for your relentless effort, you have to realise that some people will sometimes be upset even at your rapid rate of improvement. The better you get, it may wind some people up even worse.
This is exactly the time you need to let go of these so called “friends”. FACE FACTS- anyone who doesn’t want you to be healthy and happy , they need to GO. Anyone who holds you back, constantly snipes at you, giving you “complements” with a sting in the tail, WILL be very destructive in your life if you let them.
So many of you hopefully can relate to this, and you must realise how vital your inner circle is. It is said that the 5 people you hang around with most you become. So if they are mostly negative, constantly criticising you, tearing you down, want you to give up the gym because you are showing THEM up for THEIR lack of efforts, then what chance do you have for long term success?
Transfer those inner circle to positive people who will lift you up, support you, guide you through the tough times, push you through the ups and downs and be there for you no matter what, can you imagine how successful and happy you will be very day?!!
Your success means everything to us, and we are fully aware there are many people out there often closer than you think to you getting very jealous of your transformation at the gym and will do anything to put you off. Ask yourself what their true motives are, leave them behind for good and have some clarity of thought.
You are capable of doing ANYTHING you want, and your support inner circle is absolutely crucial for achieving that.
