Saturday, 3rd February

We all get caught up in thinking about things, that eventually bother us.
 
The hardest step is to start “letting go” of things. If we don’t, they OWN us.
 
How many of you have a manager in work who causes stress in your life often?
 
How many of you have someone in your social circle who quietly snipes at you, sometimes without anyone noticing, often making you feel guilty or miserable for doing good things?
 
How many of you are angered by others, and you think that revenge is the only answer to make you feel better and “get back” at those who have wronged you?
 
Letting go works big time because if you decide not to OWN the insults or jealousy or bitterness thrown at you, then the person GIVING it in fact owns it and has to live with consequences.
 
Living with that inside is horrible and can have serious effects on your health, so let it go and allow someone else to have those awful emotions that can crush you inside.
 
The manager at work is a bad manager if they stress you out often. They get less out of you, they are often bad managers to others and your organisation is suffering majorly and if they have enough bad managers, the whole organisation will be destroyed in no time.
 
This manager has probably deep unhappiness running through their lives both at work and most likely at home where it starts. They have resentment to most things in life, and it’s a matter of time before they are moved or forced to quit.
 
Show you are better to everyone at work, show your true talents because they will always shine through even when you think nobody is looking. You are the one your employer, or your future employer will really count on in the future and eventually be rewarded, even if it seems remote at times right now.
 
Tough situations shape our character for the future, and although it may not seem like that now, you are already creating massive resilience within you that will help make you outstanding at whatever you do in the future.
 
Here’s a saying on revenge. “If you seek revenge, then you had better dig two graves, one for the person you want to hurt badly and one for you”.
 
Revenge stays with you and your actions will only bring you down. Stay away from those who bother you so deeply. Their actions eventually bury them to a place they are unable to return from emotionally, and you should never envy that.
 
Look at people who are intent on delivering hurt to people’s lives on a consistent basis. Do you really want to be like them? They are usually universally disliked and ridiculed often. Leave them own their gifts of unhappiness, guilt, negativity and misery.
 
The moment you let things go is the moment you set yourself free from everything bad because it won’t affect you anymore.

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