Whatever you feed yourself, you will get more of.
Feed yourself negativity, you will get more sceptical about your chances and opportunities in life. You will quit more easily, you will make more excuses and avoiding hard work will become the norm.
I love throwing very positive stories about comebacks from very tough situations at people, because invariably, the comeback story will usually tell everyone else that excuses are not real reasons to quit or not even try, they are just excuses that can never be justified.
Is your environment feeding your positivity or negativity?
I know myself that on the weekend if I went out and chose negative company and an environment I was likely to be doubted, ridiculed for having a go in life, then that would be an extremely distasteful, unpleasant and do nothing for my confidence (this has happened in the past).
I generally make aa big point of avoiding such situations-trust me its a great strategy, because with some people you will NEVER win with.
Put yourself in a good situations, with people who will lift you up when you doubt yourself, people will encourage you when you are thinking about making a positive change in your life, and people who will back you no matter what when things aren’t going your way in life.
