Category: motivation

I heard a great thing off one of our members this morning. She heard a doctor say that many people feel “safe” in their houses because they felt they could escape life’s pressures and not have anything demanded off them, so it was an “EASY LIFE”.

The doctor continued, saying that staying in your house all the time only ADDS to pressure in your life. You never go out so you don’t see anyone, we ALL need human connection, human touch, human interaction, it’s what we are put on this earth for and we feel enriched for those interactions. 

We need people to make us laugh, occasionally make us cry and we definitely need people to encourage us, support us and understand our problems.

If we don’t do much, then we never build any self-confidence, any self-esteem or ultimately any self-worth. We haven’t got any sense of purpose anymore and although life is somehow “easier”, it can easily become more depressing, less meaningful and every day “becomes the same exactly like the last one”.

Our health suffers because we don’t seem to do much anymore, our mental health declines rapidly and the more we decline invitations to go out, the more people stop asking us to do things.

Before we know it, taking advice off people who “thought they knew best” isn’t so smart after all the doctor continued.

Be careful who you take advice off, those who tell you to stay in all the time, don’t do so much, advise you to never take a chance or take an opportunity, are the REALLY acting in your own best interests?!!!

We all have a fork in he road at times, to follow those who have a go in life or follow those who retreat in life and in many ways give up on themselves with all of the negative implications. 

Whatever you focus on, you automatically tend to use energy on it.

I know people who focus all their energy on their cars, they shine it once a week, it’s spotless inside and it means the world to them, they often treat their cars better than they treat their own body.

Some people focus on eating out, going to the best restaurants, avidly following the latest reviews and trends, and are proud to be called a “foodie”, or are wine “experts” and are highly knowledgeable about wines around the world after a lot of research.

The truth is for many that they don’t focus on their health until something goes wrong. A visit to the doctor may include a high blood pressure diagnosis, so reducing salt in one’s diet, reducing alcohol consumption and exercising regularly suddenly becomes a big focus.

I’ve seen some people being referred to a scooter shop so they can manage to get around in the future because of breathlessness and weak legs, but I’ve also seen the same people RE-focus on getting fit and healthy again, getting their legs stronger and not accepting the help  of a mobility scooter, because they know once they accept it, they are never likely to walk much again.

When things go wrong with our health, eating well turns from something we put off to “someday” to something we do with great urgency, because time is ticking quickly to our next doctor’s appointment, and we don’t want a bad reading and diagnosis that means we end up on medication to treat it.

Prevention is always better than cure, and staying in a good routine with our food and drink, as well as our workouts keeps us in good health and avoids the need to suddenly start panicking about our health.

Sleep has been a secret weapon of mine for years. I always get to bed early, and it has enabled me to have a career of 430am starts.

I don’t start my day at 430am for fun, it’s just the time I start my day based on the availability of individuals I train, but if people I train are making that commitment, then I had better prepare well for them too!

When I get home lunch time, a nap is always vital to recharge, to re-energise, and to reboot my system after such earlier starts, even 20 mins is good, an hour better but I don’t always reach that figure, but when I do I have a lot more energy for afternoon and evening session.

Life is often a sprint when you want to do your best work. I tend to go all out in the morning, then rest and recharge, then early afternoon I do a lot of computer work such as right now and prepare for afternoon/evening coaching when I also need to go flat out, it’s worked well for decades for me.

If you are struggling for energy in your day, then sleep is one of the first place you need to look at. 8 hours a night is desirable but deep sleep and high quality sleep is even more important.

Things that will stop this happening is screen time right before bed (highly disruptive it’s been proven).

Alcohol before bed (there are 120 sleep disorders, EIGHTY are linked to alcohol).

Not exercising-if you don’t train you won’t sleep so well (endless scientific papers on this subject), if you just do one thing, make sure you exercise most days to get a deeper more relaxing sleep.

Rest and recuperation is so important but I know many of you don’t sleep as well as you could or should, there’s no shame in taking a nap in the day, in fact its highly beneficial, get serious about your sleep and this helps you get serious about your results, your body healing well and your overall performance.

The things you do right most of the time will always swing the balance in your favour.

If you turn up at the gym often, or do an online workout with us, then you are very likely to be fit, strong and have plenty of energy.

If you always have good food in your house, you don’t buy rubbish into the house, have the odd treat here and there, then your health will be very good and your results will be strong for a long time to come, plus you will have good balance in your life, no more faddy diets, no more yo yo dieting and you have a positive association with food.

Associate yourself with good positive uplifting and encouraging people and your own thoughts, behaviour and actions are likely to be positive too, and you will likely have an attitude of continuous self-improvement.

You will likely be always gaining an edge on how to train better, eat a little better or use new ways on how to sleep better, such as no screen time just before bed being a good start, the better you rest the better you recover from your workouts and the better you perform the next day.

Doing things the right way is the only way for long term success and short cuts never last and always take you right back to where you started.

These two new programmes are an honesty checklist.

Are you still strong and willing to try new movements out to test yourself and get even stronger? Have you been ignoring your strength or not been lifting what you are truly capable of?

Are you happy with your mobility and flexibility? If yes then great but we are trying to take you even further, if you’re not happy with it then these exercises are the answer.

Being honest about your fitness is the ultimate reality check, keeps you strong and keeps you out of pain. 

With exercise you must stay on it all the time to feel as good as you possibly can, it is hard work but the more you put in the bigger the rewards too, and at the end of the day, it’s done to YOU how much you are prepared to put into it.

Be honest, be one of the hardest workers in the gym and strive to continue to improve-that philosophy will guarantee a high quality of life!!!