So we had a post this morning, saying if you stayed positive, when many people in your day is negative, then you would be at an ADVANTAGE.
How did your day go from 6am this morning?
Did you encounter negativity all day? Was it negative on the news reporting on hate and destruction?
Have you an inefficient boss who’s inability to do their own job well comes out in the way they treat you?
It’s tough in these situations. This is why you need to PROTECT your precious circle, and NOBODY negative comes into it.
I’m talking about your family time, your friends time and all of your time outside the negative stuff you can’t do much about at the moment.
Protect who you hang out with, who you spend time with and help them be more positive too. If you have a more positive group and circle, then you will be HAPPIER full stop.
Block out as much negative noise as you can, cherish your inner peace and don’t you dare let anyone destroy your peace of mind and happiness.
Theres an old Maori saying, an enemy WITHIN the tent is worse than a THOUSAND outside. Choose well.
Finish off your day with peaceful thoughts, turn off the hate, turn off what’s not going to help you and prepare tomorrow for another great day.
If you are a salesperson, and you fail to get sales times after time, then you tend to lose faith in yourself, and tend to stop even attempting to make sales, your confidence goes, you wonder if there’s even a point, and its very likely you will never try selling again as its “not for you”.
So you hit the gym, you are super enthusiastic and hopeful. You make progress but for one reason or another, you struggle to make sessions, and it soon becomes easier “not to come”.
Every time you try to make the gym, you get sidetracked. The next time you try gets harder to get your kit on, the time after you may drive down to us and it becomes a major test even to talk through the door, several of you have been known to turn around.
You stop trying, you give up on yourself and you may hate it anytime fitness is mentioned on TV. You have lost your motivation, and you are in a deep rut. The gym is “not for you”.
I see this many times. That salesperson if they tried a different and more relentless approach, they could have won their days. I was terrible, awful at sales, until I lived with purpose and believed 2000% in what I was doing and offering people.
Those of you stuck in a rut, you need a different approach, something that will actually work.
Reach out to those close to you telling them it upsets you being unfit and unhealthy. You feel down, and you need to get out of it. You need positive people around you, to lift you of the thick fog that you cannot see out of.
Make your appointments at the gym HAPPEN. Like I say, your health is much more important than anything else, SCHEDULE it in, you need it 3 times a week for 30 mins to start.
I want to be ringing the bell for you when you come next. I want to see the pride on your face when you have climbed out of the emotional hole you may be in right now. I WANT to see the face on you when your kids tell you that you have inspired them and you are beaming with pride.
I want to see you running 200 miles an hour at the life you really dreamed of, and enjoying every pulsating moment.
What are you waiting for!!!